A Lesson on Good & Bad ERG Allyship 😬

Hey Champs šŸ†

If you attended the ERG Engagement Tour Keynote Workshop, aka the 10 Rules of Engagement Workshop, you heard my take on allyship and how I compare allies to tourists. And if you missed it, don’t worry! I’ve uploaded this recording portion on YouTube for context. Don’t worry, it’s only 10 minutes :)

Now, if allies are like tourists (see video above for context), it’s crucial to note the fear ERG leaders have: the lack of psychological safety for their community due to ā€œbad tourists.ā€ These are allies who aren’t respectful of the group’s norms and customs.

There’s a fascinating parallel here with real-world tourism—some places, like Kyoto, Japan - are have even banned tourists because of their disruption. They’re making a private community, very similar to a private ERG - free from the bad tourists.

How about another example? Over the weekend, a popular but niche conference took place: Dreamcon, the largest and fastest-growing Black-owned anime and gaming convention in the United States. You might think the ally in this scenario would be anyone who isn’t Black, but that’s not the case. Despite being Black-owned, Dreamcon is welcoming to everyone, stating on their site, ā€œwhether you’re Black, white, brown, purple, or green like Piccolo.ā€ The only requirement to be an ā€œidentifying memberā€ of this community is a love for gaming and/or anime. In this context, an ally would be someone who does not have a love of the anime and gaming world. (Fun fact: I fall into this ally category. I’ve attended similar conventions and even tried to cosplay šŸ˜…).

Above: A little embarrassing, but yes I was the duck (or whatever this character is). This is not my culture and although I had zero context on this show, I spend the entire day before making this cosplay from scratch and it brought my husband and a lot of the attendees some joy. I call that #allyship.

This year’s Dreamcon was a bit different. For the first time, non-identifying people flocked to the conference due to its growing popularity (much like allies in 2020). Unfortunately, some of these attendees disrupted the event by mocking others and calling them nerds, which naturally upset some people.

This scenario is every ERG’s worst fear: non-identifying people joining and ruining the vibe by being disrespectful. While it’s not super common, there are instances where people join spaces they don’t identify with or agree with just for the controversy. I can’t fathom why someone would do that, but it does happen occasionally. However, I’m sure the majority of non-identifying attendees (and supporting spouses like myself) who are allies to this community used this as an opportunity to immerse themselves in a culture different from their own without any issues. They likely helped take pictures, bought from vendors, and cheered for panelists.

Here’s the reality: allies are essential for ERGs. Legally, you cannot have a private channel that only admits identifying people. Period! While it’s not widely reported yet, companies are being sued for exclusive ERGs under claims of discrimination. During ERG Engagement Tour, at 3 of the 12 sessions, at least one attendee mentioned their company had recently faced this issue. Even asking members to indicate if they are an ally or not is risky. Please address this issue before the end of next month to prevent one individual from creating a problem that could jeopardize your entire ERG program.

That being said, it’s probably time to reevaluate your ERG allyship strategy.

There’s another side to this however, watch the clip above or stay tuned until next week when we dive more into the other side of allyship in ERGs.

-The ERG Homegirl

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